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Relationship
Advice: Follow Your Gut!
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by: Justin
C Luyt
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Relationship
Advice: Follow Your Gut!
Copyright © 2005 Justin C. Luyt
The Spirit of Romance
http://www.SpiritOfRomance.com
When people seek relationship advice from a
trusted friend
or family member, it is most likely a waste of
time, says
relationship author Justin Luyt.
"We ask for relationship advice often when we
feel we do not have
the answers to our relationship challenges,"
Luyt says. "We grasp
for external wisdom, with the false belief that we
do not know
the answers, but if we are being authentic to
ourselves, we have
those answers."
Luyt recently published The Spirit of Romance, a
book that offers
readers practical relationship advice and uses
interactive
planning tools to not just change thoughts, but
feelings and
behavior, too. Using the term "Spirit",
Luyt defines the inner
source people must acknowledge before looking
honestly inside
themselves instead of seeking relationship advice
from others.
"We know why we are where we are in the
relationship," Luyt
says, "but often avoid our own internal
introspection. Spirit
challenges us to grow and learn."
He insists that by strengthening relationship with
Spirit,
people can truly grow and move past the challenges
at hand.
"When we ask for help from a friend, it is
for an ear... not
guidance," he summarizes.
Throughout his book, Luyt offers a look at
self-reflective
relationship advice, all based on Spirit, which
allows people to
see others in their true light, as people filled
with desires,
dreams and vulnerabilities.
Luyt writes people seek mutual personal and
spiritual growth as
the basis for any relationship. His ideas of
Spirit inspire
people too look within their core being to
experience something
they can understand and feel completely. This
acceptance of
Spirit negates the need for outside relationship
advice when
people can answer the crucial questions with
knowledge from
within.
When a relationship changes form or course, people
have it within
their Spirit to redirect their energies from
sensitivity and
vulnerability to spiritual strength. This strength
gives people
the ability to become their own relationship
advisors because
they have gained the insight necessary to overcome
false doubts.
Luyt writes, "People are here to grow; and
spiritual growth
occurs in a space of love, not fear."
Through his public speaking and counseling work,
the South
African native has developed the Accelerated
Romance Coaching
Program, a one-of-a-kind mentoring and coaching
system for
singles and couples. Various Fortune 500 companies
have used his
trans-continental engagingly fresh, out-of-the-box
and into- reality approach for group seminars,
training and coaching.
His book, The Spirit of Romance, is available at:
http://www.SpiritOfRomance.com
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Justin Luyt has been doing Coaching and Consulting
for over 12
years. He is the published author of "The
Spirit of Romance" and
facilitates numerous seminars. To contact him call
1-877-7ROMANCE
and his book is available at: http://www.SpiritOfRomance.com |
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