There is an old English Proverb that goes like
this a friend in need is a friend indeed. How
true! Having a special friend you can turn to in
good times and in bad is a beautiful and
splendiferous thing. Leo F. Buscaglia said:
"A single rose can be my garden...a single
friend my world, “To illustrate this point, let
me tell you a story about friendship.
The Beauty of a Rose
I was walking through the forest and through
the bushes I heard weeping .I followed the sound
of the soft cry until I arrived at a woman sitting
upon the snow .Her eyes were filled with tears and
her heart heavy from life. I sat upon the cold
snow with her and I offered her my shoulder and my
ears.
“What is your name”, she asked”. I smiled
at her and I said, “My name is Faith, my middle
name is hope and my last name is compassion. I saw
a faint smile come upon her face as I asked her
“what is your name? “ “My name is flower
child and “I had given up on hope, faith was
something I was loosing site of and I have no more
compassion to give. “
I asked her if I may read her a poem and
through the poem I showed her self-worth .That it
was more important for her to have self worth for
when she loved herself others would love her to. I
showed her reality, that you can not save the
world if people don’t or won’t listen. I spoke
of how important it was to have a compassion for
others.
I showed her praise, I praised her for staying
strong when she had given up on faith. I showed
her patience as this was something not easy for
any of us. Things take time I told her. Sometimes
people just don’t want to accept what is in
front of them. I told her to please hang on that
someday they may learn respect. I then said to her
this you see flower child this is hope
We sat and talked awhile and I saw a smile come
back through flower Childs eyes. I picked up a
wild Rose that was laying there in the snow. I
placed the rose it in her hand. It wasn't everyday
you had roses in winter. This is friendship the
most important of all things in our life. It is
truly as rare as this rose in the snow. When you
receive it cherish it and don't ever let it die.
Then I smiled, I handed her a piece of paper
with my number on it and I walked away. She called
me the next day and I heard join in her soft
voice. She told me that she had thought of me and
I truly lived up to my name. I think she found her
faith, her hope and her compassion. She said she
found it in me but I think she had it in her all
along. But what she did not have was the
friendship of a Rose or an earth angel to help
guide her along
We all need someone in life to say I believe in
you. Friendship is as rare as a rose in the snow.
When you receive it cherish it don't let it ever
die. Life is too short not to cherish those who
show us compassion. Don’t let silly things stand
in our way. For friendship is the beauty of a
rose.